36: Teaching Subs to Climax on Command¶

General Process¶

It’s really just Pavlovian style conditioning, and appealing to our ancient lizard brains.

It’s often thought of that it’s quite difficult for many women to climax. But I’ve never really found that to be a problem. I think it’s really that life gets in the way of us enjoying sex. We’re modern creatures now and we’re full of modern worries like bills, and the neighbors, and the shitty customer at work, the barking dog down the street, etc, etc, etc… It’s like a hundred annoying reasons not to cum.

But that’s all very modern. But we humans, our brains are old. Very old. And fucking and cumming, that’s old-brain wiring.

So when I want to train a little slut to be able to cum for me, I make sure to take away all the modern bullshit. I growl, and I bite, and I lick the side of her neck. When I play with her, I’m not thinking as a modern person. I’m thinking as a primal animal with a little submissive toy that I’m going to pounce, fuck, and breed. Overwhelm their senses and don’t let them be worried about the color of the walls or what’s on TV tonight. Don’t let them think about anything except that they are prey and will be used and conquered.

As I touch and tease them, I’ll growl in their ear, whisper what a good toy they are. Get them so close to cumming on my fingers, and then I’ll tell them to hold it. To wait. And I keep going. Eventually she’s begging cutely, begging to cum for me. Begging to be allowed to. And then I’ll growl, “Cum for me” in my deepest, sexiest little growl. And she will.

The first time the timing is a little rough, but she cums. Then I praise her for it. Lots.

The next time, the timing is better, and she cums right when I say she can. Then I praise her for it. Lots.

The next time, she’s even better, and goes over the edge right as she hears the word. Then I praise her for it. Lots.

Repeat.

Every time she cums more easily.

Don’t let her think about the bills. Trap her with the growling, and the cumming when she’s told to. Speak to her ancient lizard brain, the one that knowns how to be an animal who’s hunted, who’s claimed, and who’s going to cum for the one who’s conquered them.

Bonus Points¶

A few times I’ve gotten girls so worked up with just the growling alone, that that was enough to push them over the edge. I had a roommate who I never had sex with, but I’d growled in her ear a lot. Each time she’d get more and more turned on by it. More into the primal aspect of it. Eventually I was able to growl hard enough at her that she climaxed from the sound alone. Not one finger on her body.

Once she learned that, I’d walk up behind her while she was making me a coffee, growl and force her to climax, and take the coffee and say “Good girl…” as I walked away, smirking.

End Game¶

When it gets easy for her to cum, it eventually becomes possible to do so without the actual voice in her ear. I can hold up an index card with “CUM” written on it, or just send a text. Anything that makes her read it and hear it in her head in my voice will work. Because she hears it even when I don’t say it.